Obama Reaffirms Support For Same-Sex Unions
Barack Obama is sticking by his defense of same-sex unions, despite the likelihood that it will flare up as a general election issue because of today's California Supreme Court decision legalizing it. Here's the Obama camp's response to the court decision:
"Barack Obama has always believed that same-sex couples should enjoy equal rights under the law, and he will continue to fight for civil unions as President. He respects the decision of the California Supreme Court, and continues to believe that states should make their own decisions when it comes to the issue of marriage."
The Republicans are likely to seize on Obama's respect for the court's decision as proof that electing Obama would bring about gay marriage across the country. Of course, it's also worth noting that Obama stops short of embracing gay marriage, putting him out of step with many on the left.
No statement yet from Hillary Clinton. John McCain's spokesman, however, has weighed in with this:
"John McCain supports the right of the people of California to recognize marriage as a unique institution sanctioning the union between a man and a woman, just as he did in his home state of Arizona. John McCain doesn't believe judges should be making these decisions."
Late Update: Here is the Clinton campaign's statement:
Hillary Clinton believes that gay and lesbian couples in committed relationships should have the same rights and responsibilities as all Americans and believes that civil unions are the best way to achieve this goal. As President, Hillary Clinton will work to ensure that same sex couples have access to these rights and responsibilities at the federal level. She has said and continues to believe that the issue of marriage should be left to the states.















Excuse me for being dense but, what is the difference between a civil union and marriage from the government's point of view?
May 15, 2008 6:24 PM | Reply | Permalink
Well, that's exactly the point of the gay community and that was the point of today's decision.
If the rights and duties of a civil union are similar in every way to the ones of marriage, as they are in CA, then denying the word "Marriage" to us is a gratuituous and therefore discriminatory move.
"Seperate and therefore not equal"
May 15, 2008 6:28 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thanks for the reply.
The use of the word marriage where? On government documents?
I am not sure where I stand on this issue, but to be honest I am leaning towards the word marriage being a religious terminology (not 100%, but more than 50%) and letting the standard definition stand as far as the government was concerned. Admittedly, I do see holes in that argument, but having the government messing around in religious terminology doesn't seem right either.
Just so you know I am not a religious person and my argument is not based on religion.
May 15, 2008 6:45 PM | Reply | Permalink
Glenn Greenwald explains it :
May 15, 2008 6:54 PM | Reply | Permalink
I think you are wrong her (or, rather, the quoted individual is wrong):
"(San Francisco, California) The California Supreme Court ruled Thursday that Prop 22, the voter approved initiative used to block same-sex marriage is unconstitutional.
The court also said that California's domestic partnership law is not a good enough substitute for marriage."
The court ruled that no 'separate but equal' institution would be tolerable under the state's Constitution. To recognize a blanket 'religious' exception to recognizing (note I did not say SUPPORTING or PERFORMING) would not withstand scrutiny, violating as it would the religious 'establishment clause'.
What the court is saying, in effect, is that ANY TWO adults who wish to marry must have that union recognized by the state of California - and that no marriage benefits can be withheld or denied based on the gender of the marriage partners.
May 15, 2008 7:04 PM | Reply | Permalink
I have not read the judgement and tend to trust him but I would agree with them more if they followed your logic than his. I think this is one for the lawyers to decipher.
Here is another take closer to yours:
May 15, 2008 7:09 PM | Reply | Permalink
Exactly - inasmuch as that is what marriage actually is - a state sanctioned relationship.
May 15, 2008 7:15 PM | Reply | Permalink
I think that gay couples should get all the rights and privileges as a traditionally married couple but isn't this just a matter of definitions.
Couple(same sex): called marriage
Couple(opposite sex): called civil union (or whatever else)
Rights are assigned at the Couple level, every thing else is just descriptive. Just like you get a license to drive as a person, but it still lists your race on your license.
Legally I don't know if that is anywhere close to the truth but it is how I see the situation.
May 15, 2008 8:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
Your race is on your license? Ick! Isn't that against some kind of law or something?
May 15, 2008 8:45 PM | Reply | Permalink
I are stupid
Hmm... I never looked. I just assumed it would be there along with your height and weight as a security measure to match your photo. Oh well, now I need another analogy.
May 15, 2008 9:06 PM | Reply | Permalink
Birth certificate might do. Or, in some states, marriage license?
May 15, 2008 11:25 PM | Reply | Permalink
It ruled the difference wasn't legally defined. That is different from ruling differences can't be legally defined. It opens the door procedurally to a Constitutional referendum to define differences, which the court would then enforce.
This ruling could also be considered a poison pill against same sex marriage and wedge issue for 2008 politics.
Politically, in most people's minds, the difference between civil unions and marriage is already defined. On a gut level I think it has to do mostly with children.
Polls have the vast majority of Americans against same-sex marriage, and split on civil unions.
May 15, 2008 6:58 PM | Reply | Permalink
But polls show a majority of Californians now in favor of gay marriage and we have had very generous civil unions for years. Once again, CA Constitution is different from the US Constitution and Ca public opinion is different from US public opinion. Which is why the national pols getting involved in this are idiots. They have no idea what they talking about.
May 15, 2008 7:14 PM | Reply | Permalink
I doubt that. It's one thing to be vaguely in favor of gay marriage hypothetically. However, not many people feel a gay married couple is equivilent to a hetero married couple in regards to raising children, all else being equal. Not even very many gays I know and meet in SF, CA.
I was raised to be open minded and unprejudiced, by liberal social activists, grew up in SF CA, in the Castro, with many gay and lesbian friends. WASPs were the minorities in our social circles. I myself am hetero, married (though I never thought I would be) racially mixed, liberal. For a long time was in favor of gay marriage.
But, when one looks seriously at the issues and the complications of children and parenting and how it's intertwined with marriage as a social institution, it's not so simple to be for gay marriage and equality when in fact there isn't parity or equivalence on some meaningful aspects of marriage.
Sex and sexual orientation aren't just for recreation or cosmetic identity but have real implications for parenting. One doesn't have to be a religious nut to realize that. Sex and orientation have real biological implications for behavior, physicality, and life experience. It can't be dismissed as trivial.
Even in liberal NorCal, where the vast majority of people are in favor of gay rights overall, as people get serious about the issues of parenting and marriage issues, naive notions of bumper sticker equality tend to fall away.
May 15, 2008 10:11 PM | Reply | Permalink
Shorter kozmik-
Gays can get married, I guess, as long as they don't have children.
Pathetic. Like being straight is some kind of guarantee of parenting skills.
May 15, 2008 10:41 PM | Reply | Permalink
No, that's not at all what I said. Nice try at reducing issues to moronic simplicity though.
May 15, 2008 10:59 PM | Reply | Permalink
btw, this whole idea that you're for L+G "having children" is a little kooky.
You can be in favor of gay and lesbian adopting. You can be in favor of lesbian women as single parents via sperm donors and then legal adoption by a lesbian step parent. All of those are descriptions of possibilities.
But you can't be in favor of gay or lesbian couples "having children" biologically because it's impossible.
Biology still matters.
May 15, 2008 11:07 PM | Reply | Permalink
Many gays, lesbians and bisexuals have children form previous relationships and marriages. Sexual orientation has zero correlation to parenting skills or suitability. In fact the studies done on the effects of, and capabilities of parenting kids for same-gender couples shows that the only difference found is less intolerance in the attitudes of such kids about gender roles limiting what people can or should do (which is a good thing).
May 16, 2008 3:03 AM | Reply | Permalink
"Having two moms or two dads is so icky and weird. Think of the children! By the way, I'm not a bigot. I have so many gay friends."
May 16, 2008 2:36 AM | Reply | Permalink
First of all, because a civil-union does nothing at the Federal level, form Social Security survivor benefits to filing your tax returns jointly or not...
Second, because civil-unions don't cross state lines whereas because of the full-faith and credit clause of the Constitution, marriage does.
May 15, 2008 8:10 PM | Reply | Permalink
Well, the federal government is barred from recognizing gay marriages by the DOMA.
May 16, 2008 12:23 AM | Reply | Permalink
Yes it is. Which is why repealing DOMA, which Obama is supportive of, is a key hurdle that he has cleared in showing his commitment to equality.
May 16, 2008 5:23 AM | Reply | Permalink
And remind me again why I'm not supposed to like Obama?
May 15, 2008 6:24 PM | Reply | Permalink
For the record, the wording of the statement is surprisingly close to the wording of most gay rights group.
"equal rights under the law" is dog-whistle politics. It means "I am happy too but I really can't say it".
I thought he would not even go there. All in all, it is a pretty intelligent and artful way to put what is ultimately a cowardly but politically necessary position.
May 15, 2008 6:26 PM | Reply | Permalink
It is probably the best we can hope for with how far along our society is right now. I think he really supports gay marriage, but obviously a national candidate can't openly support such a measure and still expect to get elected. I wish it wasn't that way, but I'm afraid it is. I really think this is the only way we will eventually get to where we need to be, slowly but surely, and hopefully it won't be that slow. I think we are actually making some great progress, and hopefully with Democrats in control and successes like in California more people will come around to the idea of gay marriage.
Anyway, I don't fault Obama for this, even if he stated position isn't "ideal" -- hell, no candidates' stated positions of anything are "ideal" in my book, I'd like to see a lot more out of all of them, if the world was perfect.
May 15, 2008 6:31 PM | Reply | Permalink
Come on, sweetie.
No one has done more for same-sex couples than Barack Obama.
May 15, 2008 6:35 PM | Reply | Permalink
Broken Record Troll
May 15, 2008 7:04 PM | Reply | Permalink
Ah man, that was good.
May 15, 2008 7:12 PM | Reply | Permalink
Gotalife - I am 100% behind you on this - breathing heavily - there is nothing funnier than making fun of homosexuals - who are different from us.
But Gotalife - sometimes I wonder if you realize how I feel about you. I keep trying to come up with the words, but -
I'm sorry - I have something in my eye - have to go!
May 15, 2008 7:22 PM | Reply | Permalink
I think Gotalife would agree with me that any country that offers equal rights to all it's citizens in completely BS crap coolaid that won't lead anywhere but to 4 years of Mcsame and the spineless dems of corporate media, WV landslide...uh...hang on - I can do this...um....Whiners?....Hateful! Errr...
COOL AID!
May 15, 2008 7:26 PM | Reply | Permalink
You two are really sweet.
May 15, 2008 10:06 PM | Reply | Permalink
McCain just demonstrated his ignorance.
The decision was the response to a suit. The judges did their job.
May 15, 2008 6:35 PM | Reply | Permalink
That man is dellusional.
May 15, 2008 7:14 PM | Reply | Permalink
John McCain doesn't believe judges should be making these decisions
Hmmmm. If I were a wingnut conservative Christian, I'd say this response is a tad, well, nuanced
Why doesn't he just come out and say "Gay marriage will end civilization as we know it and I'm opposed to that!!!@@"
Why is he passing on the opportunity for gay-baiting?
Seriously?
May 15, 2008 6:38 PM | Reply | Permalink
McCain thinks he can win the wingnut, indie AND disaffected Clinton supporter vote all at the same time.
This is his "all things to all people" strategy, which is going to blow up in his face rather soon.
May 15, 2008 6:43 PM | Reply | Permalink
Obama... I know why i don't support him. Where is the change for the LGBT community in Obama's presidency?
“I’m a Christian, and so although I try not to have my religious beliefs dominate or determine my political views on this issue, I do believe that tradition and my religious beliefs say that marriage is something sanctified between a man and a woman,” Obama said.
May 15, 2008 6:53 PM | Reply | Permalink
Obama's stance on gay issues actually goes further than HRC's.
Their platform is virtually identical except that Obama wants to repeal DOMA in its entirety while HRC wants to keep the proviso that allows states to not recognize other states' same sex marriage.
May 15, 2008 6:56 PM | Reply | Permalink
What does my post have to do with HRC? This is about Obama and his ridiculousness. He knows its his Christian beliefs that determine his stance on gay marriage. If he is supposed to bring about change and hope that we can believe in, shouldn't he be a little more hopeful in regards to homosexuals in America? All he is doing is propagating a notion of inferiority and "separate, but equal".
May 15, 2008 7:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
That Democratic candidates are cowardly on the issue - including Obama - is undeniable and unfortunate.
In the America we live in, it is also a necessity.
Talk to me in 2020 and if the Democratic candidates still spout that BS, I will be with you.
It is one thing to be hopeful about what one can accomplish. It is another one to be foolish.
I hate having to defend Obama on that issue because I disagree with him but trust me that he is going as far as any politician willing to stay electable can go. And actually I thought that statement he put out went a little bit further I would have thought.
May 15, 2008 7:19 PM | Reply | Permalink
I think we share the same sentiments Benjamin :)
No hard feelings, i just don't like Obama.
But when 2020 comes, lets hope this divide doesn't even exist :)
Thanks for your input, its great to see someone who wants equality.
May 15, 2008 7:24 PM | Reply | Permalink
The main difference is I love the man but on the substance of the issue I agree with you, and I am actually quite certain so does he. But politics is a dirty business (even for the hopemonger).
May 15, 2008 7:31 PM | Reply | Permalink
Well, the whole gay marriage issue is stupid to begin with. It's the battle of the fringes.
Obama takes a principled stance, which is to be for civil unions, not pandering to either side. Gay couples should have a mechanism by which they can become partners for legal rights such as shared property, visitation rights, etc. Basically so they can become family to each other. The vast majority of people support that out of common sense and fairness.
However, that's not to say LGBT should be extended full equivalence on marriage which also has relevance to many child rearing and adoption issues as well as economic aid to aspiring families. Again, common sense so long as people acknowledge there are real differences between a gay couple and a hetero couple in regards to procreation and parenting.
You've got some affluent LGBT activists making trouble on the far left socially, but many are economically conservative DINKs in the top 2% income who would otherwise vote Republican and act Republican in most regards, including racism and laissez faire ethos. I know plenty.
On the other hand are activists on the far right trying to make hay of it to rally their wingnut base around social issues and distract them from real issues where they would otherwise vote Democratic.
None of it matters that much in comparison to other issues like energy independence, economic growth, global warming, healthcare, etc.
Regardless, it's all for naught, at best. Gay marriage isn't going anywhere nationally, but there is an overall move towards civil unions. Best case scenario is nothing changes and civil unions pass.
Worst case is gay marriage activism becomes such a burden on Democrats the base abandons LGBT activists and pick up the votes elsewhere with more socially conservative minorities like Hispanics and moderates. If that happens, then even civil unions can fail and the trend towards LGBT tolerance and anti-discrimination is reversed.
Already this is happening in SF, CA. Most of the city groans every time Newsom panders to the LGBT community. It's only tolerated because he was the business candidate and still is on most issues. So far it's mostly harmless. But as it starts to have real consequences for state and national politics, there will be a real backlash, even in SF where our local politics are utterly screwed up.
The whole issue is too stupid, ideological, and polarized on all sides.
May 15, 2008 10:40 PM | Reply | Permalink
Lets put your Social Security survivor benefits up for a vote, let's put your right to have your spouse be legally empowered to make emergency medical decisions on your behalf up for mob rule, let's make the right to even claim the body for burial of your spouse up for popular vote of bigots, and the list is literally thousands of rights, protections, benefits and obligations that are denied same-gender couples because of gender discrimination marriage law. You seem to be under the delusion that your fellow non-heterosexual citizens should be denied equal protection under the law because of the genders of their spouses.
Grab a clue jackass.
May 16, 2008 3:11 AM | Reply | Permalink
Hillary says the exact same thing about not standing for gay marriage here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y3huRVrckY8
Enough said.
May 15, 2008 6:58 PM | Reply | Permalink
That's great for Hillary, but has Hillary run on this silly campaign of "words". For homosexuals, the words "Civil Union" does not mean about the same thing as "Marriage". If Obama wants to run on a campaign of words and change, why doesn't he say that this is more than semantics, that it is an issue that deserves equality.
May 15, 2008 7:05 PM | Reply | Permalink
"Obama... I know why i don't support him. Where is the change for the LGBT community in Obama's presidency?
“I’m a Christian, and so although I try not to have my religious beliefs dominate or determine my political views on this issue, I do believe that tradition and my religious beliefs say that marriage is something sanctified between a man and a woman,” Obama said."
Actually, this is a bit of a trap for right-wingers.
Obama's point is that HIS religious beliefs say that marriage is something sanctified between a man and a woman. The problem is that other people's religious beliefs can say differently and the law has to respect that.
The gay marriage debate in Canada got settled not because the federal or any provincial government passed a law supporting them, but because the United Church of Canada broke from the other denominations and not only openly supported the marriages, but began performing them in their churches.
The government was put in the position where opposing gay marriage meant denying members of that church to practise their religion. Every smart conservative in the country got out of Dodge when that happened.
And look. Ahnold has already bailed. John McCain doesn't realize it yet, but he's in ten times the trouble now that Obama ever was because of Rev. Wright. Republicans are in the habit of assuming that all Christians oppose gay marriage and are going to have a major civil war when they find out they don't.
May 16, 2008 12:13 AM | Reply | Permalink
Can I help? I used to do some Domestic Relations work.
A wedding is not necessary to a legal marriage - all that is necessary for a legal marriage IS a civil union.
Example: my nephew and his partner actually had a legitimate church wedding with a Methodist minister officiating but they are not married as far as the government is concerned.
My mother and father, on the other hand, were married by a Justice of the Peace. They were legally married.
Did that help?
May 15, 2008 6:53 PM | Reply | Permalink
The difference is the license from the state.
All marriage is is a legal relationship. That's all it is. The government is involved because it's a contract and the government says what constitutes a valid contract. It is also a property issue because it directly effects property rights.
May 15, 2008 6:56 PM | Reply | Permalink
It's kind of absurd the way LGBT marriage activists always try to avoid mentioning children in relation to marriage.
Marriage is also an issue of prospective families.
Joint tax filing and child tax credits for examples. The child tax credit is available to anyone with a child, be they LGBT, single parent, hetero unmarried couple, etc. Public schools are similarly available to anyone. Social programs which target the child specifically, after the fact, tend to be completely non-discriminatory.
However, other proactive policies such as joint filing, or family planning counseling services, are designed to be proactive in encouraging and helping families, targeted at heterosexual reproduction.
Also there is the issue of adoption and other legal status, based in the working presumption ingrained in our culture that a married couple is heterosexual.
For example, if a gay married couple applies to adopt and an otherwise equivilent hetero married couple is given preference, the gay couple could then sue, claiming it was illegal discrimination. Most people would not support such a legal conundrum.
May 15, 2008 10:58 PM | Reply | Permalink
You seem to be under the delusion that protection is a perquisite of what defines a marriage and also under the delusion that gay lesbian and bisexuals are never parents.
May 16, 2008 3:06 AM | Reply | Permalink
Your obsession with gays not having full parenting right is a wee bit disturbing.
And by wee bit, I mean really creepy and fucking annoying.
Gays ARE parents. Gay parents are deserving of all the societal support and protection given to straight parents. Children of gay parents are deserving of all the societal support and protection given to children of straight parents. It's that simple.
(Well, actually, all children are deserving of far more support than our society currently provides, but that's a whole 'nother issue.)
May 16, 2008 11:26 AM | Reply | Permalink
What does McCain think of state legislators making these decisions? The California legislature has twice passed laws to make gay marriage legal but Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger has vetoed them.
"In his veto message, the Republican governor said it is up to the state Supreme Court and then, if necessary, voters to alter Proposition 22, which defines marriage as between a man and a woman in California."
May 15, 2008 6:56 PM | Reply | Permalink
You are misrepresenting Schwarzenegger's position actually.
He said he vetoed the laws because he wanted the Supreme Court to be the one to decide. He said - and confirmed it today - that if the Supreme Court held that the ban on gay marriage is unconstitutional, he would stand by that decision and actively campaign against any constitutional amendment trying to deny us that right retroactively.
He will campaign against the November amendment, his spokesperson confirmed.
May 15, 2008 7:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
jarota's point stands even with your clarifications: The state legislature is for marriage equality, the state executive is for letting the state judiciary decide, and the state judiciary is for marriage equality. McCain wants to override all three, which is interesting since he's expressed a 'let the states decide' type.
If McCain doesn't support either the elected legislature's choice to change the law or the elected executive's choice to hand the matter off to the judiciary, then apparently the only thing McCain does accept as speaking for the people of California is an old ballot initiative, which the voters may or may not still entirely agree with (I guess we'll see in November when the voters take it up again, this time in the form of a constitutional amendment).
May 15, 2008 7:35 PM | Reply | Permalink
Another fun tidbit about the canard that "unelected judges make the law" is that while they are picked by the governor, CA Supreme Court Justices are subject to popular confirmation after a first fixed term.
All the judges that voted in favor have been reelected with more than 70% of the votes.
May 15, 2008 8:10 PM | Reply | Permalink
So McCain and the Governator (who endorsed McCain) are in disagreement and Governator will actively campaign against McCain's position on this issue?
Sweet.
May 15, 2008 8:17 PM | Reply | Permalink
By the way - I really believe that gay marriage is going to be a giant non-issue in this election. People do not care - except for the 25% of the population who are batshit insane fundies.
And they wouldn't vote for Obama regardless.
I love it that he is for Equal Protection under the law.
May 15, 2008 6:59 PM | Reply | Permalink
No link, but I recall seeing one in a dKos diary in the past few months wherein Obama made the distinction between Civil Union and marriage a purely religious one. Feeling that, for the state to allow same sex "marriage" per se is, to his Constitutional interpretation, a violation of church-state seperation. He does, as clearly stated in this article, believe that all couples should have equal rights under the law.
Does that mean that all references to "marriage" in the legal domain should be changed to be "civil union" even for male/female unions and leave marriage strictly to the religious domain?? Dunno myself, just wondering.
May 15, 2008 7:04 PM | Reply | Permalink
See I agree with him. What he is doing is using the words carefully.
Civil union IS legal marriage. But a religious wedding ceremony is what a lot of people associate with the word marriage. It's superfluous in the eyes of the law.
He's right and this is the right way to approach this - then it doesn't seem that churches are being forced to do anything they don't believe in doing.
Which is right - we have a Bill of Rights and the churches are free to refuse to perform weddings they don't agree with.
It does not affect the legality. You can be married in a church - my nephew and his same sex spouse were - and not be "married" in the eyes of the law - they aren't.
See? It's careful use of language.
May 15, 2008 7:08 PM | Reply | Permalink
With the economy in ruins, with our sons and daughters dying overseas in a stupid illegal war - do you really believe gay marriage will be a wedge issue? Really/
That's just nuts - people do not care for the most part.
May 15, 2008 7:16 PM | Reply | Permalink
Oh they'll try alright.
"O'Bama and those dems hate your values"
California's going to be their battleground. There will be a ballot initiative that will split the GOP
May 15, 2008 7:27 PM | Reply | Permalink
It's McBush v. the Governator my friends
May 15, 2008 7:24 PM | Reply | Permalink
I have come to suspect that Ahnold really is a secret Democrat.
His wife openly supports Obama, along with all the rest of the Kennedy women.
May 15, 2008 7:28 PM | Reply | Permalink
Well gay marriage is a touchy issue for more reasons than simply the wingnuts. There is the issue of Freedom of/from Religion. The constitution bars government from interfering with religious practices, and marriage is a religious practice.
Sadly, due to tax law, insurance and inheritance law etc, it has become entangled with government, so in actual fact the government has MADE marriage into an equal rights issue. Because they just had to legislate marital status.
The only way out is basically to completely disentangle the legislative aspect of two people deciding to move in together and share property, and possibly reproduce/adopt, and the ceremonial religious aspect.
May 15, 2008 7:28 PM | Reply | Permalink
Please listen - you have it exactly backwards. Marriage is first and foremost and nothing more than a governmentally sanctioned union. The Church usurped it from the king/state in part - not the other way around. It is a governmental function, end of story - that's all it is.
May 15, 2008 7:30 PM | Reply | Permalink
Well actually noone even gave a damn about marriage, and a lot of people didn't even bother getting married, they just pretended they already were.
Marriage only started to matter legally when the brilliant minds of the early part of this century started making everything to do with taxation and insurance and inheritance have two tiers, married and single.
That was the single stupidest decision ever made ever.
May 15, 2008 7:55 PM | Reply | Permalink
Sorry early part of LAST century...
May 15, 2008 7:56 PM | Reply | Permalink
You couldn't be more wrong.
LOL!
Marriage in Western European culture started out pretty much the privilege of the wealthy who owned property and property is something the state is always interested in.
The confusion is this: The Church became the goddamn State in Europe for hundreds of years so the Church took over these matters and RULED that they were sacraments.
Marriage was never a sacrament (and it is the King James Version, and Jesus was making wine, not sealing vows)
Marriage is a STATE SANCTIONED RELATIONSHIP. That is all that it is.
May 15, 2008 8:03 PM | Reply | Permalink
Of course Obama is a bit out of step with the left... He's running a general election campaign. He can't be the Progressive Liberal Messiah many want him to be, because he wouldn't get elected.
I would like legalized gay marriage, believe me. I would like a lot of changes in the way of personal freedoms, peace and global leadership. You must understand however, that right now, in this country, we are a couple steps away from real, institutionalized fascism.
Once he's in, the rhetoric may change. Maybe once he's in his second term, the rhetoric will change. Progressives really have to learn patience and strategy. We have the activism and expression of outrage down pat. Now it's time to get Zen Voodoo up in the house and see Obama's support of civil unions as a BIG plus.
May 15, 2008 7:32 PM | Reply | Permalink
I don;t see progressives excoriating Obama over this nor will they. Only bitter dead-ender Clinton "supporters" perhaps, but real progressives and real Democrats see and understand the reality here.
May 15, 2008 8:22 PM | Reply | Permalink
[bangs head on keyboard]
Dude, what the hell do you think common law marriage is? It is a recognition by the state that a couple have done just what you are talking about. Every state recognizes common law marriages between men and women.
May 15, 2008 7:32 PM | Reply | Permalink
Its a wedge issue sweetie.
gop heads are exploding.
Be happy and drink some more kool aid sweetie.
May 15, 2008 7:44 PM | Reply | Permalink
LOL!
My frustration has nothing to do with Obama. I find every time this subject has come up over the years that people really know so very damn little about marriage that it makes me want to just yell: Stop! Do not get married until you know what the hell it is you are doing!
May 15, 2008 7:50 PM | Reply | Permalink
And who that REALLY is you're doing it with!
May 15, 2008 8:26 PM | Reply | Permalink
Gotalife - we talked about the sweetie thing (not in public)
Oh - wait - I see - Obama quote.
Oh man is my face ever red.
May 15, 2008 9:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
If it were *completely* disentangled, then there wouldn't be so many issues with inheritance, taxation, medical benefits, etc.
May 15, 2008 7:52 PM | Reply | Permalink
You know, you're right.
I think you are definitely on to something there. I'd love it if you could perhaps send me some brochures.
May 15, 2008 8:08 PM | Reply | Permalink
But how do you disentangle that and not make the benefits, protections and obligations long conferred by legally recognized marriage workable and accessible to people?
You going to make it so you have to have thousands of dollars in legal contracts to get people the same thing that a $25 dollar marriage license and registration with a state's records confer in existing law?
Do you know how many hundreds of thousands of laws, rules and regulations you would have to rewrite and turn into legalistic nightmare to do what you are suggesting vs. simply stop discriminating in marriage law on the basis of gender?
May 15, 2008 8:54 PM | Reply | Permalink
Actually many (most) states do not have common law marriage.
May 15, 2008 8:23 PM | Reply | Permalink
That's changed then, because the Uniform Family Code had a provision that Texas adopted almost word for word and at one time I know almost every other state had.
I will admit I haven't so much as looked at anything pertaining to family law in a long time. I hated it - I hated every single second I spent doing it.
May 15, 2008 8:32 PM | Reply | Permalink
I believe most states recognize common law marriages that are established as such in a state that recognizes them. But most states do not in and of themselves confer recognition of common law marriage of resident couples within their own states.
I could be wrong there, but back in the early 2000s IIRC the list of states that have common law reognition was the minority of states.
May 15, 2008 9:27 PM | Reply | Permalink
According to wikipedia:
Granted it is wikipedia, but that does conform to what I recall.
May 15, 2008 9:31 PM | Reply | Permalink
Personally, I wouldn't care if they called legal same-sex unions "French vanilla ice cream" so long as they carried the same legal benefits and burdens as opposite-sex unions. But what the court was specifically saying is, it's NOT ok under the California constitution to call them by a different term, for the precise reason that it delineates a difference between the two, and that delineation could lead to inequality under the law.
The easiest and least politically explosive way to comply with the court's findings and extend the same legal rights to all couples, then, would probably be for the state to re-define ALL legally recorded domestic partnerships as "civil unions". People getting hitched in a church ceremony, which essentially is superfluous to the legal recording of the union, would be "married" and in common parlance, people who haven't gone through the religious ceremony would still be referred to as "married".
Semantics shouldn't matter, but they almost always do.
May 15, 2008 7:56 PM | Reply | Permalink
In California, that would conform to the ruling.
This really is a state issue, not a federal one. The only federal problem is whether or not full faith and credit is going apply as it should.
May 15, 2008 7:58 PM | Reply | Permalink
Yes and no. State recognized marriage is required for equal rights, protections and obligations at the Federal level which will still be denied unless DOMA is overturned.
Try filing your Federal taxes or claiming survivor benefits with only a state sanctioned civil-union (even in CA). Hell same-gender couples in MA still can't claim Social Security benefits and that state has actually state sanction marriage.
DOMA is a federal law that has to be repealed or overturned. Furthermore the Federal problem reflects back to state programs as well. Oregon for example uses your Federal tax returns to complete state returns, and state-level implementation f Federal programs follow Federal rules which again can at times deny equal protection and applicability to same gender couples because of Federal rules, regulations and laws.
So it is not quite so cleanly separated a state vs. federal issue as you suggest.
May 15, 2008 8:30 PM | Reply | Permalink
Personally I think the solution is to remove the concept of marriage as a legal status. "Being Married" should not require a piece of paper, and should really have the same legal weight as "Seeing Someone".
Thus everyone, straight, gay or hetero-lifemate (ie permanent roommates) should instead automatically enter into "shared asset cohabitation" upon living together for a year, automatically making them eligable for what is now spousal insurance benefits. If this person is a Dependant of yours then they can claim alimony if you break this arrangement.
Completely seperate from this, if for any reason you adopt or reproduce you and anyone in "shared asset cohabitation" has a responsibility to share the costs and responsibilities for raising the child, so the child becomes everyone's dependant (for tax purposes as well).
Father and uncle raising a kid? Uncle should be able to claim the kid as a dependant.
Polygamous home? All the "moms" should have the legal rights of a spouse.
Two gay couples pretending to be straight neighbors? No problem!
May 15, 2008 8:09 PM | Reply | Permalink
This is religious. You have to have legal recognition of familial status for a host of reasons, from emergency medical decision authority, to joint property rights, to child custody rights, to survivor benefits.
There are over 1,049 Federal level rights, protections, obligations alone conferred through legally recognized marriage, most of which are well beyond the superficial and transitory term you call "seeing each other".
Marriage is the formation and legal recognition of famaili status between to non-related consenting adults.
May 15, 2008 8:35 PM | Reply | Permalink
LOL
Accidental typo humor there. That should have said... "This is ridiculous" though I posit those are often synonyms.
May 15, 2008 8:37 PM | Reply | Permalink
You can't because you cannot unhook it from property.
lestat - When I was still doing that stuff there was no DOMA and so I'm way behind the law. When I was practicing, the Uniform Domestic Relations Code was like a bible for almost every state.
May 15, 2008 8:35 PM | Reply | Permalink
Exactly GL - It disgusts me when people not as equal as us demand equal rights. Show me where in the constitution they guarantee that? And don't rub some cool aid into the page to try to blur the words (ha!)
May 15, 2008 8:10 PM | Reply | Permalink
Obama's statements make sense, but McCain's is partly sensible.
May 15, 2008 8:11 PM | Reply | Permalink
McCain's statement only make sense if you want to discriminate against non-heterosexuals and same-gender couples and want to use Constitutionally bullshit "arguments" to muddy up the rhetoric and play on people's religious intolerance and bigotry for political expedience.
To give it any other credence beyond trying to not often the bigot-base of the GOP, then you are deluded.
How's this, we put your right for equal protection under the law up for popular vote and mob rule, you game?
May 15, 2008 8:42 PM | Reply | Permalink
Way to go to Senator McCain for saying the people and a fractured, arrogant couple of out-of-touch justices should decide the issue of marriage. Senator Obama doesn't seem to realize that this issue could really, really hurt him now that it's flared up like this. Regardless of whether they agree or disagree with the decision (and polls show a majority disagree), Californians absolutely hate it when courts overturn their votes.
Senator Obama is foolishly and clumsily trying to walk the tight rope here. Why doesn't he fight for the voters to decide the issue? It's a lose-lose situation for him and he's going to look goofy for not standing up for democracy. Because the bottom line is that if this constitutional amendment doesn't pass in California, there will be gay marriage. Prop 22 won't hold it back any further. The California Supreme Court may have just helped elect a Republican President for the next 4 years.
May 15, 2008 8:20 PM | Reply | Permalink
How's this, we put your Constitutional right for equal protection under the law up for popular vote of mob rule, you game?
May 15, 2008 8:43 PM | Reply | Permalink
Actually, you're just saying that because you support gay marriage. If this was an issue that you supported, you would respect the will of the people. I agree that there may be some issues that shouldn't be decided by the people, but this isn't one of them. Democracy is just that - rule by the people, like it or not.
May 16, 2008 12:00 AM | Reply | Permalink
Your country disagrees with you:
"Democracy rests upon the principles of majority rule, coupled with individual and minority rights. All democracies, while respecting the will of the majority, zealously protect the fundamental rights of individuals and minority groups."
http://usinfo.state.gov/products/pubs/principles/what.htm
Maybe take a look at Article XIV of the U.S. Constitution while you're at it.
May 16, 2008 12:54 AM | Reply | Permalink
If that were the case then anti-miscegenation laws (i.e. outlaw mixed race marriages) would still be Constitutional. More people (71% of the population) believed that mixed race marriages should not be legal when the Supreme Court ruled such laws unconstitutional in Loving v. Virginia (1967) than they do today regarding same-gender marriages being legal/illegal. That said it is somewhat irrelevant to the Constitutional principals of equal protection under the law (i.e. the 14th amendment) vis-a-vis the topic at hand.
Your seeming of the Constitution, its principals and the vapidity of your "arguments" is doing you no favors here.
May 16, 2008 3:19 AM | Reply | Permalink
Ugh...
Should read:
See what I get for posting after midnight?
May 16, 2008 3:21 AM | Reply | Permalink
Well, that's been the Republicans' game for a long time now. They get social conservatives to commit to vote Republican against their economic interests just because the GOP is on their side with Guns, God, Abortion, and Gays. I'd like to think we're getting to the point where the larger issues of the economy and war are so salient that they can't be drowned out by the wedge issues though.
May 15, 2008 8:21 PM | Reply | Permalink
But do you really think the Republicans game plan is gonna work this time?
I really am not at all worried about gay issues becoming a major campaign issue. I'm just really not.
May 15, 2008 8:39 PM | Reply | Permalink
Like I said, I think the war and economy have become such huge problems that they're going to overwhelm any sort of smaller social issue. I'd also hope that social conservatives are realizing that Republicans haven't given them anything for their support, either. Roe v. Wade, after all, just survived 8 years of Bush. Evangelicals have voted for Republicans in order to "protect family values" and the GOP used that support to send their family members overseas to fight.
May 15, 2008 8:46 PM | Reply | Permalink
Right, Obama is one step behind the California supreme court decision.
May 15, 2008 8:22 PM | Reply | Permalink
The Clinton camp's made a statement too now. It's almost word for word the same as Obama's:
May 15, 2008 8:29 PM | Reply | Permalink
There is a major difference though in that Obama uses the sentence "equal rights under the law" which is dog whistle politics. That's the exact wording gay rights orgs uses to ask for marriage rights.
So while their position is the same, he is hinting at something there. Nothing he will ever elaborate on for obvious reasons but still ...
May 15, 2008 9:49 PM | Reply | Permalink
Well, she's pretty much finished with campaigning now and is just plagiarizing Obama's talking points. But, I'm okay with that.
May 15, 2008 10:11 PM | Reply | Permalink
There's an issue not touched on in the past that's important and that goes to the heart of the California SC decision, as I see it.
Marriage is not just a legal or religious concept; it is a social badge. The term functions to designate a couple as given society's imprimatur. That's what's lacking in the "separate but equal" category of "civil unions." Because of the history of the term "marriage," the withholding of that social badge from gay and lesbian couples makes them second class citizens in social terms.
May 15, 2008 8:35 PM | Reply | Permalink
There seems to be a difference of opinion among gays, then, because my nephew and his partner tell me that civil union is fine because what they want are the 1700 legal rights and duties that come with the Marriage License from the state.
May 15, 2008 8:40 PM | Reply | Permalink
I agree that the legal issues are huge: the ability to share property, consult in medical circumstances, have a partner share insurance rights, etc.
I suppose this is analogous to Maslow's hierarchy: the concrete legal benefits are of utmost importance, but once those are granted, the question of equal social status comes into play. (It's hard to be overly concerned about dignity when you're scrambling for legal equality.)
May 15, 2008 8:43 PM | Reply | Permalink
Don't disagree.
There is the social aspect of it, and the legal one. Almost all GLBT people could care less if you call it an aardvark for legal rights purposes. It is only in the social area where you see it become conflicted, and as is the case with almost everything, the lines of demarcation between social and legal are blurred.
When does social attitudes and activity by individuals or groups cross the threshold in becoming substantive discrimination and denying equal rights and public accommodation?
May 15, 2008 8:49 PM | Reply | Permalink
I agree with this totally - but you know the state cannot regulate "social issues." Those are societies problems to deal with and I do think incredible progress has been made.
May 15, 2008 8:56 PM | Reply | Permalink
That's a good question and one that brings to mind the issue of what rights smokers have in our society any longer.
I'm not a smoker myself, but I know people who are who feel despised because what used to be approved is now looked upon with disdain, even when she smokes only in places where it not legally prohibited. She encounters mothers who tell their children out loud that only filthy people smoke. That is certainly discrimination based simply on social attitudes that, according to her report, occurs in more than just isolated incidents that can be brushed off as "kooks." When that kind of behavior becomes pervasive, then a dangerous threshold has been crossed.
The greater problem is when these attitudes become embodied in legal distinctions that go beyond legitimate concerns over protecting others from harmful side-effects, as in the case of second-hand smoke. IMHO, when government starts legislating that smoking must be banned in places where it has been characteristic of a location where people elect to be (such as bars), that is institutionalized discrimination.
By contrast to the complex case of how to protect health and retain the rights of smokers, however, there is no public interest justification for denying gays and lesbians the badge of marriage, with all its attendant rights and privileges.
May 15, 2008 9:02 PM | Reply | Permalink
I agree it is an interesting tension there (and in most aspects of legal/social interaction). Not to drive to far afield into the smoking issue since it is tangential in some ways to the discussion of this thread, but the flip-side of the "institutionally ok to smoke in bars" thing is, what about wait persons and musicians whose livelihood is forcing them to be in an unhealthy work environment?
Here in Oregon, we have passed a law which makes smoking in any bar, restaurant, public venue etc. illegal. Of course here in most parts of Oregon (Portland in particular) the law is almost behind the public (i.e. social and business) curve on the banning. Most bars and restaurants are smoke-free because the social attitudes here reached a tipping point that there was no business downside to going smokeless, and has become an almost necessity to be smokeless in Portland. PLaces that allow smoking is becoming an almost niche market which will disappear Jan 1, 2009 when the entire state goes smokeless.
May 15, 2008 9:21 PM | Reply | Permalink
I live near Madison, WI, and there the case was the opposite: the law was imposed over the desires of many who frequented bars, and initially bars saw a reduction in business. (I don't know how that has unfolded.)
Nevertheless, the appeal to workers forced to inhale second hand smoke is the one argument that holds weight for me in arguments for legal intervention.
The other issue this brings up is the relationship between social attitudes and constitutional rights, particularly equal protection. I heard some of the opponents of the California ruling today trumpeting the idea that the courts have overruled the will of the people (not necessarily true, I think, but we'll find out in the fall with the referendum on the California ballot). Nevertheless, the function of the courts, of course, is precisely to protect rights even when they are disapproved by the majority. I guess that's why many of us are "card-carrying members" of the ACLU. But the fallen condition of SCOTUS, as you and others have been lamenting, is a dreadful flaw in that system.
May 15, 2008 9:31 PM | Reply | Permalink
On a side note, I finally watched the Chris Matthews clip from today. I was all set to feel bad for the radio host he was interviewing but good god, what a tool.
May 15, 2008 8:39 PM | Reply | Permalink
John McCain is an idiot. The judges didn't overrule or force anything on to the people.
May 15, 2008 8:40 PM | Reply | Permalink
There you go, being all reality-based again.
;-)
May 15, 2008 8:45 PM | Reply | Permalink
And you have managed to make me feel really rusty and downright dumb.
;P
May 15, 2008 8:48 PM | Reply | Permalink
LOL Thanks, but you give me too much credit.
While I have not been as as deeply entrenched in the past 5 years or so as I used to be on these issues, these issues are major part of what long ago made me finally stop being a Republican (I was raised in a Rockefeller Republican military family).
When I saw the utter fraudulent bullshit the religious right was doing with wedge issues over gay, lesbian, bisexual and trans people, it made me do some deep digging on the assumptions I was raised with politically.
Now I am like an ex-smoker and actively seek to destroy the modern GOP politically and hope the sane paleo-conservative brand of GOP can find a new form and come to the for and be an actual loyal opposition to keep Democrats (which I am fiercely proud to be) honest, as we work to make progress on the further realizing the principles and ideals of our national social contract.
May 15, 2008 8:59 PM | Reply | Permalink
I love your attitude and your goal and I so hope you are successful because having a two party system is really important. I get antsy with one-party rule.
May 15, 2008 9:04 PM | Reply | Permalink
I think constitutionally this is the only correct ruling because I have always thought that the right was already there - in the Equal Protection Clause. So there never was a need for anything to be "created."
I think that's right.
I think the civil union designation is a kind of dodge - but I'm willing to let the candidates use it because it basically says the same thing.
I analogize it to the "partial birth abortion" dodge - Obama says he's against anything that does not make an exception for situations in which a mother's life is in danger. Ok - the plain fact on the ground is that that procedure, which has been terribly misnamed by the right, is ONLY performed when the mother's life is in danger.
I'm not upset with the dodge because it reflects actual reality and this is still a campaign.
May 15, 2008 8:46 PM | Reply | Permalink
Don't disagree.
The problem is the recent shift in the make-up of the SCOTUS and why this election if crucial. Scalia is an asshole and fundamentally wrong in some of his interpretations of the principles in the Constitution, but he IS a sharp S.O.B. and he was right in "warning" in his dissent in Lawrence v. Texas that ruling sodomy under the equal protection clause was joining Loving v. Virginia in setting up what is the correct (though he sees it as the most undesirable of outcomes because he is a uber Catholic retrograde bigot) resolution of this entire issue. That denying a couple the right to marriage because of gender is unconstitutional.
Part of me, for completely tactical/strategic reasons, hopes DOMA doesn't get repealed because it is a vehicle that can get DOMA overturned and instantly eliminate this entire issue permanently from the legal and political realm, just as Loving v. Virginia did with regards to interracial marriage and anti-miscegenation laws.
The risk there is the current (and future) make-up of the SCOTUS. Replacing O'Connor with Alito is the problem (on this issue in particular) which makes that path a risk for now.
May 15, 2008 9:10 PM | Reply | Permalink
That holds true for every damn thing -
We're so screwed with this court.
May 15, 2008 9:20 PM | Reply | Permalink
It is obvious that the evolution of this issue points to state and federal control over the terms of civil unions and religious control over the terms of marriage. Obama anticipates this inevitable resolution of the issue dictated by the separation of church and state.
May 15, 2008 8:46 PM | Reply | Permalink
I tend to agree with you and would have no problem with calling my heterosexual marriage a civil union and turning to a church for the sacrament that is called marriage.
It would further the separation of the church and state to differentiate between civil unions and marriage. And I think that is a good thing.
If only words didn't carry so many emotional connotations...
May 15, 2008 9:52 PM | Reply | Permalink
Hillary: .........
Oh yeah, she is just going to ignore it because making a statement about the G word might be politically risky. Maybe she's checking her her pollster, running a few pushcalls testing the waters, you know, the usual.
Or maybe she is on the phone with McCain coordinating their next joint attack.
May 15, 2008 8:53 PM | Reply | Permalink
And really the best way to look at the same sex marriage issue, AFAIC, is to look back at the miscegenation laws and their downfalls.
May 15, 2008 8:59 PM | Reply | Permalink
Exactly.
Which is yet another reason that any fucktard who claims to be a Clinton supporter and is willing to risk the SCOTUS by refusing to vote for Obama if when he is the nominee, or voting McCain beyond lame and should truly earn such fraudulent "supporters" a metaphorical 2 x 4 upside the head
May 15, 2008 9:13 PM | Reply | Permalink
What the Bush Republicans did to the federal justice system is the most long lasting and worst damage they have done to the country.
I'm just sick.
May 15, 2008 9:22 PM | Reply | Permalink
I agree absolutely. That will take years and years to reverse.
It is simply imperative that we elect Obama to prevent any further deterioration in the court's makeup.
May 15, 2008 9:32 PM | Reply | Permalink
What will be a key challenge for Obama this year is to make this Supreme Court nominee issue concrete for voters. For too many elections the Dem candidates have not hammered this point often enough or well enough. It is a golden opportunity to win back Clinton supporters who care about a woman's right to choose, among many other issues (environmental regulation is high on my mind). I think Obama's up to the task.
May 15, 2008 11:09 PM | Reply | Permalink
Note that DOMA was actually signed by the then-president Bill Clinton.
May 15, 2008 10:34 PM | Reply | Permalink
I predict eventually the law will have to deal with same-sex couples as "married" anyway.
The first time a gay couple with one working partner, the other stay-at-home, breaks up (with children), then the state will give child-support to the other partner.
Just like Texas has a "common-law" marriage, I can't see gay couples escaping marriage for long.
May 16, 2008 12:09 AM | Reply | Permalink
All marriages should be extra-legal. Government should have shit to do with any and all gods and any and all gods should fuck-off and have shit to do with governments.
The government has a duty to register/license/regulate all civil unions as they impact folk directly involved in them and society in general. This is about health, welfare and interstate commerce.
If folk want to sancify their civl unions and binding legal understandings with a religious oriented ceremony and the religious oriented institution they choose to be involved with chooses to play host for the event . . . who am I and who is anybody else to screw with that.
While the woman I love and myself bound ourselves under the laws of California and the people of California can argue interest in the maintenance of that union . . . The fact that we also bound ourselves under the laws of Moses and the Jewish people is none of their business (except for the Lieberman (No, not that one) Clause in my wife's and my Ketubah).
Additionally, while I would perfer that Obama would adopt a view on this subject (and healthcare and corporate legislation) that is more in line with my point of view, I recognize his right (and the right of those to the right of my views) to his understanding of the universe . . . although I will not feign happiness about it.
I give props to Obama for addressing this subject AND for pointing out that Bush43 and McCain are jack_holes for and about Bush43's K'nesset address.
May 16, 2008 12:21 AM | Reply | Permalink
Dood,
If you were a "wingnut conservative Christian," chances are you wouldn't know the meaning of "nuanced."
Broad, sweeping generalization, I know.
But damned accurate.
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Obama/Olbermann '08!
May 16, 2008 12:37 AM | Reply | Permalink
I think we should all have Civil Unions and none of us should have marriage.
Marriage should be purely cosmetic thing you do in a church if you want to.
May 16, 2008 12:39 AM | Reply | Permalink
No doubt, it's an emotional issue, and one on which I think Barack Obama has positioned himself exactly right.
Tena, et. al., don't kid yourselves that the Repugs won't try to make it a pivotal issue. Abortion and same-sex marriage are the two issues where Hillary's hard-working white folks have serious concerns.
That said, because of the dire situation of our economy, this could be the one election cycle where social issues fail to resonate with those who are really struggling economically and who, to a large extent, are the same folk who so adamantly oppose same-sex marriage and abortion.
At the end of the day, the stars are aligning for a Democratic victory. Social issues may gain some traction, but it's the economy, Stupid!
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Obama/Olbermann '08!
May 16, 2008 1:12 AM | Reply | Permalink
I have no doubt they will try, but it will fail and backfire miserably for them. The world didn't end years ago when Vermont started civil-unions, or when MA started performing same-gender marriages, But mainly I posit that since there is zero tangible effect on any heterosexuals, and in no way affects any heterosexual's lives if a same-gender couple down the street gets married and has the same legal rights as any other married couples... vs. $4 a gallon gas, a tanking economy, a disastrous war we will be paying for figuratively and literal for generations, a housing/mortgage melt-down, saber rattling by lunatics for another war (Iran)... it will fail.
The GOP/bigots have trotted out the same scare wedge issues for over a half dozen election cycles, each time with rapidly diminishing returns. Where the country is politically, it will come across very quickly as the scare-tactics wedge issue to distract voters form the real issues we as nation face.
May 16, 2008 3:31 AM | Reply | Permalink
Oh, yeah. And the war. Which is related to the economy, but a booger-bear of an issue in and of itself.
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Obama/Olbermann '08!
May 16, 2008 1:13 AM | Reply | Permalink
It'a a halfway measure from both Obama and Clinton. It is preferable to no support for equal rights for gays. It falls short of pushing for equality as Massachusetts and California have. Both candidates are under pressure to minimize the damage the GOP will be able to do with this issue. Additionally Obama must deal with his large constituency of bigoted black southern Baptists to whom he has already pandered on the gay issue.
May 16, 2008 1:25 AM | Reply | Permalink
Really? How has he pandered to those "bigoted blacks" on this issue?
May 16, 2008 3:33 AM | Reply | Permalink
I believe that civil unions should be the law of the land while the term marriage should be defined as unions established by a church.
I don't like the fact that the state and federal governments can consider marriage a sacred institution while at the same time treating it like a two-party contract with its own branch of secular law.
I think this debate has been confused from the start. If a church, such as the Unitarian Universalists, wish to recognize gay unions, then that is their right. They can marry under that church and it is a sacred institution per that branch of religion. The state and federal government, however, would treat it as a civil union for purposes of the law, i.e. health insurance, taxes, inheritance, and children.
So if the Catholic Church never wants to recognize same-sex marriage, they can continue to refuse because that is their right as a religion-- a gay couple can choose to marry under a church or go see the justice of the peace.
This balances out separation of church and state and gives the choice to religious institutions to participate in the secular world or stick to their false moral high ground.
Redefine legal marriage as a civil union for all citizens and quit with the second class Jim Crow definitions of marriage... one for breeders and one for gays. Leave marriage where it belongs: church.
May 16, 2008 1:39 AM | Reply | Permalink
Excellent points, Zipperupus.
People often forget that there are a number of religions and denominations in the U.S. that already perform marriages for same sex couples. There is no universal consensus that the religious institution of marriage should be open only to heterosexual couples.
The religious right plays a complicated shell game with the whole issue of equal marriage rights, using the state's ability to ban such unions at a secular level (an ability which is rapidly deteriorating thanks to rulings like this one) to mask the fact that many religious gay marriages have been performed for years in this country.
May 16, 2008 4:00 AM | Reply | Permalink
Clinton and Obama, like most leading Democrats, are trying to have it both ways, proclaiming a devotion to equal marriage rights, and then declaring their opposition to giving the institution in question the same name for both gay and straight couples.
As the California Supreme Court says, unless the state provides civil unions for all or marriages for all, the rights are not equal.
And leaving it up to the states--as Obama, Clinton...and Dick Cheney support--inherently denies equal marriage rights, and not only because it fails to give gay marriages the full faith and credit enjoyed by straight marriages.
Let's see how the Clinton/Obama/Cheney position on equal marriage rights for gays and lesbians would sound if applied to the issue of race and Jim Crow: "I'm in favor of equal access to public accommodations for people of all races, but it should be a state decision." That was essentially Barry Goldwater's reason for opposing the Civil Rights Act of 1964.
In short, Clinton and Obama are quite simply not in favor of equal marriage rights, despite their desire to package their opposition to them in a favorable light.
May 16, 2008 4:08 AM | Reply | Permalink
What is worse is that Obama
in ginning up his black campaign in SC
appeared with and actively promoted and defended
openly homophobic "ministers".
None of his bs since has or ever will erase thagt hateful and shameful behavior.
The episode taught us that there is no idea, no belief, no people he will not throw under the bus to attain power.
Obama has lied about this issue just as he lied about his plans to end the war.
That the "progressive" community is willing to countenance Obama's hypocrisy towards gay and lesbian citizens tells us all we need to know about their true politics.
May 16, 2008 7:02 AM | Reply | Permalink
What is worse is that Obama
in ginning up his black campaign in SC
actively promoted and defended
openly homophobic "ministers".
None of his bs since has or ever will erase that hateful and shameful behavior.
The episode taught us that there is no idea, no belief, no people he will not throw under the bus to attain power.
Obama has lied about this issue just as he lied about his plans to end the war.
That the "progressive" community is willing to countenance Obama's hypocrisy towards gay and lesbian citizens tells us all we need to know about their true politics and the shallowness of their humanity.
May 16, 2008 7:04 AM | Reply | Permalink
So has Obama called any male reporters "sweetie"?
May 16, 2008 10:37 AM | Reply | Permalink
If he did, could they get married?
May 16, 2008 11:22 AM | Reply | Permalink
Obama is specifically against same-sex marriage, as is Clinton. Both support civil unions. McCain wants no legal recognition for gay couples, neither same-sex marriage nor civil unions.
California, typically a trend-setting state with a population larger than all of Canada, has joined Massachusetts in leaving all the candidates behind by embracing true equality for gay citizens on the state level, not half-way measures. On the national level America is behind a growing number of nations that treat their gay citizens as equals.
The NY Times has an interesting look at how much this issue may or may not resonate in the campaign.
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/24657876
May 16, 2008 11:19 AM | Reply | Permalink
Obama is specifically against same-sex marriage, as is Clinton. Both support civil unions. McCain wants no legal recognition for gay couples, neither same-sex marriage nor civil unions. All three candidates are opposed to a constitutional amendment to ban gay marriage nation-wide. If McCain decides to support the effort in California to enact such a State constitutional amendment, he will put himself at odds with Schwarzenegger. McCain needs to hold on to his social Neanderthals, but he also needs to attract Democrats who are disenchanted with Obama. Getting too deeply into the gay issue has dangers for him. It is possible the candidates will strike a balance by continuing to say that they oppose gay marriage but support the right of States to decide.
An interesting note about the effort in California to place a constitutional amendment referendum on the November ballot: It is widely assumed that if it passed, the amendment would overturn yesterday's court ruling that struck down the impediments to gay marriage. But some legal analysts said that part of yesterday's ruling specifically made the right to marriage for all California citizens a constitutionally protected right for the first time. Therefore if the amendment measure passes in November it could then be ruled unconstitutional by the court on the grounds that it would conflict with the constitutionally protected right of all citizens to marry. We'll probably hear a lot more about this later as yesterday's lengthly ruling is examined.
California, typically a trend-setting state with a population larger than all of Canada, has joined Massachusetts in leaving all the candidates behind by embracing true equality for gay citizens on the state level, not half-way civil union measures. On the national level America is behind a growing number of nations that treat their gay citizens as equals.
The NY Times has an interesting look at how much this issue may or may not resonate in the campaign.
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/24657876
May 16, 2008 11:38 AM | Reply | Permalink
Another interesting aspect of the gay marriage debate is how it pits marriage traditionalists against those who see marriage as an institution that evolves. Conservative groups have long mentioned the institution of marriage as something immutable, dating back to the foundations of civilization. Interestingly the Old Testament shows polygamy was often the norm. In relatively recent times right here in the US women had few rights in marriage, and were legally considered the property of their husbands. There were times when, for example, a husband had the right to beat his wife. The traditionalists fail to acknowledge how very much the institution of marriage has evolved as society has become more enlightened.
They add that marriage has always been a heterosexual institution, and therefore should remain so. But the court shot them down yesterday by specifically saying that just because something is traditional does not mean that the tradition is just.
May 16, 2008 12:22 PM | Reply | Permalink