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"I mean, this is divorce on steroids. To publicly humiliate your wife in that way, and your children. That's rough. I think that's going to be an awfully hard sell, even if he weren't pro-choice and pro-gun control."
-- Southern Baptist leader Richard Land, quoted by CNN on why Rudy Giuliani's public breakup with Donna Hanover will turn social conservatives against him. Via Atrios.
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Yes, Giuliani's divorce from the mother of his children is reprehensible. How could anyone bring a mistress to their home with their wife and kids? How could a man, humiliate his children by announcing a divorce from their mother on public TV, before having told his children or wife?
That is clearly emotional abuse of his children let alone a complete disrespect for the mother of his children. How could his children respect Guiliani after he so publically disrespected their mother?
Guiliani, is just not the type of individual anyone who has children or is married can respect.
What goes unsaid, as well, is that this 3rd wife Judith Nathan, is a low life character as well. After all, she actually went to the home of his wife and children as his mistress. She did not have enough self-respect to not go to their home and not engage in something so undignified until it means she too is an unsavory character.
The actions of Guiliani and Judith Nathan are unconscionable.
Imagine if Guiliani decides to have an affair in the WH, and bring his mistriss to a State Dinner and have her sit at the table with his present wife. Or travel on AirForce one with him and Judith? This of course, would be Nathan's karma, how could she possibly object?
But it needs not be our national karma. Guiliani's character is unsuitable to be President of America.
March 7, 2007 11:47 AM | Reply | Permalink
C'mon how is this worse than Gingrich serving his wife divorce papers while she was in the hospital after a cancer operation so he could be free to marry his 7th grade math teacher? How is it worse than telling her she wasn't pretty enough to be first lady?
How is it worse than Romney shooting a man in Reno just to watch him die?
Ok, I made that last one up, but give him time.
March 7, 2007 11:59 AM | Reply | Permalink
Right. He is a perfect candidate for ANYONE to run against. Besides, prior to 911 the only person in New York who even LIKED him was his mistress. Just another ambulance-fame-chaser on the heels of other peoples' tragedy. I agree that he acted well after 911 --> for one week out of his life. Somehow that doesn't translate to being worthy of the office of President. Too bad Bush has moved the bar so low or it would be obvious even to the 30% lunatic fringe.
Jan Knaus
March 7, 2007 12:00 PM | Reply | Permalink
Yes, all that was despicable of Rudy as well.
Some just might overlook his hateful actions toward his former spouses, even the one dying from cancer by rationalizing she had to have done something mean to him.
What is unforgivable is a man who PUBLICALLY terrorizes and emotionally traumatizes his own friggin flesh and blood. Those were his children for pete's sake. They had to go to school after he did that. They were subject to taunts and ridicule because Rudy was such a supreme a-hole. Those children were defenseless and they had to rely on a mother who had been just as savagely demeaned as them. Absolutely unforgivable.
I bet those kids live in fear that one day their dad will denounce them publically, as well.
March 7, 2007 12:21 PM | Reply | Permalink
Too bad social conservatives don't read the New York Times.
From a 3/3/07 NYT story, "Noticeably Absent From the Giuliani Campaign: His Children", by Russ Buettner and Richard Perez-Pena:
"...But Mr. Giuliani’s relationship with Andrew has grown strained and distant since his very public and bitter divorce from Andrew’s mother, Donna Hanover, and his marriage to Judith Nathan, according to Andrew and others familiar with the relationship.
In a telephone interview yesterday, Andrew, a sophomore and member of the golf team at Duke University, acknowledged having had difficulties with Ms. Nathan, and said that he and his father had recently tried to reconcile after not speaking “for a decent amount of time.”
“There’s obviously a little problem that exists between me and his wife,” the younger Mr. Giuliani said. “And we’re trying to figure that out. But as of right now it’s not working as well as we would like.”
Andrew Giuliani said he would not participate in his father’s campaign, saying his devotion to becoming a professional golfer within three years allows no time for distraction.
While he would not say how long he had been estranged from his father, others close to the family said it appeared to have been for at least a year.
Similarly, a distance appears to have developed between Mr. Giuliani and his daughter, now a high school senior who is to attend Harvard University in September..."
March 7, 2007 12:42 PM | Reply | Permalink
Is everyone forgetting Reagan's family? The same people who are supposed to turn on Giuliani loved Reagan. Just a tidbit I remember about Maureen Reagan: Her parents (Ron and Jane Wyman) sent her to boarding school on the East Coast at age 6; her half sister Patti wasn't told that they were sisters until Patti was 7 or 8 (http://edition.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/0406/07/acd.00.html -- about half-way down the page).
The family stuff is probably going to matter even less nowadays but if the news media wants to get into it, they could psychoanalyze the effect of ambitious parents on all of the children. Who raised Chelsea? Didn't the State of Arkansas have someone on the staff with an official title whose real job was taking care of Chelsea? Want to get into that kettle of worms and ask Hillary Clinton who took care of Chelsea and did the Clintons pay that person? It steps on her message of being a woman who had to juggle career and family, too, if the state gave her a nanny.
The one and only thing that could be a no-sale for Giuliani with the "religious right" folks is the abortion issue, IMO. They may well be sincere and reject him because they know he's just pandering to them.
March 7, 2007 1:10 PM | Reply | Permalink
Wasn't the first wife the one who had been Gingrich's teacher? As I recall, the second wife had no professional credentials. But you're right, that does sound awful to leave the dying wife to run off with an OLDER woman.
March 7, 2007 1:14 PM | Reply | Permalink
If Hillary Clinton is the nominee, its all moot. We all saw the Clinton soap opera played out in public --- remember that clip of the 3 of them walking across the lawn and Hillary looking prune faced and wearing dark glasses after Bill's grand jury testimony admitting Monica.
March 7, 2007 1:16 PM | Reply | Permalink
What the hell does an intact family have to do with the STENCH of Guiliani's divorces and utterly crass behavior towards his kids and wife?
March 7, 2007 1:21 PM | Reply | Permalink
With the MSM acting as a public relations firm for Repubs, whoever gets the Repub nomination will get an entirely fresh and updated image.
March 7, 2007 1:34 PM | Reply | Permalink
Whoever raised Chelsea Clinton? Well, who ever it was, I would turn my kids over to 'em in a second.
March 7, 2007 1:58 PM | Reply | Permalink
"If Hillary is the nominee, it's all moot."
Appalling, but true. Count on Rudy's amen chorus in the "liberal media" not to make the distinction that Bill was impeached for covering up an affair, while Rudy was rubbing his wife's and children's noses in one.
"How is this worse than Romney shooting a man in Reno just to watch him die?"
You had me going there for a second.
"C'mon, how is this worse than Gingrich serving his wife divorce papers while she was in the hospital after a cancer operation so he could be free to marry his 7th grade math teacher?"
That is so icky on so many levels.
March 7, 2007 3:29 PM | Reply | Permalink
And speaking of first wives, Rudy's was his COUSIN! He had it annulled after something like 14 years saying he just found out! Well, at least he's got the "truthiness" part of being prez down just right!
Jan Knaus
March 7, 2007 3:31 PM | Reply | Permalink
You're kidding, right?
Jan Knaus
March 7, 2007 3:33 PM | Reply | Permalink
And who raised the Bushes? I'm not just talking about the twins either. The generation that is into starting wars, skimming off Katrina $$, publicly leaving wives, and who knows what else? None of their children turned out well; the Bush twins are just the most visible losers. What a family! They put the FU in disFUnctional!
Jan Knaus
March 7, 2007 3:37 PM | Reply | Permalink
Especially Hilliary whose husband played around in the Oval Office while he worked...
March 7, 2007 3:57 PM | Reply | Permalink
R-E-S-P-E-C-T and Bill Clinton, in my book, was just like Rudy, he was self centered.
Obivously, Hilliary and Bill are still friends and stayed together because Bill knew he wouldn't behave differently with another women. Rudy, on the other hand, thought otherwise, that's all...
March 7, 2007 4:03 PM | Reply | Permalink
You may be right Karen about the order of wives though I don't think any of them died.
Then of course Gingrich was shacking up with his office mgr in DC while wife No.2 was back GA during Bill Clinton's impeachment. He eventually dumped wife No. 2 and married the office mgr. but not before Larry Flynt threatened to out him and he
resigned from the House.
March 7, 2007 4:17 PM | Reply | Permalink
While I think it was downright inhumane. I can also see how there are folks out there who would give Guiliani a pass on that. Needless to say they are heartless SOB's as they would still be able to rationalize and justify Rudy's actions. I couldn't.
My real point was that his despicable and contemptuous behavior towards his own children trumps everything else.
March 7, 2007 7:07 PM | Reply | Permalink
"Especially Hillary?" "Especially?" What does your "but,but,but Clinton" remark have to do with Rudy? And how does your tortured sentence follow up at all? If you can't make a cogent argument, maybe you should go back and actually read what people said. You might learn something. I know. You don't want to. Guess what? You need to.
Jan Knaus
March 7, 2007 8:31 PM | Reply | Permalink
Let's not forget Bob Barr and his tawdry affair along with the GOP Speaker of the House, Henry Hyde, as well as Bob Livingston who was suppose to replace him but due to his affair we got that tubber Hastert.. Livingstons wife begged Larry Flynt not to publically shame their family.
March 8, 2007 6:29 AM | Reply | Permalink
One correction, Youthful Indiscretion Hyde wasn't speaker, Gingrich was.
March 8, 2007 9:57 AM | Reply | Permalink
Totally agree. Marriages split up everyday, and you could at least see an argument that says well, we don't really know what was going on in the marriage and these are two adults so we should stay out of their business. As a matter of fact, that's very similiar to how I feel about the Clintons (though this has some exacerbating levels of jerkiness that Bill didn't ever sink to). But regardless of what happens in the marriage, the children are totally innocent parties, and any decent human being/parent will do all they can to protect them. If Guiliani will treat his own kids like he did, I sure don't want him having any say over policies affecting other people's kids.
March 8, 2007 1:13 PM | Reply | Permalink
But one crucial difference is that the Clintons still managed to raise a wonderful daughter who her father obviously loves very much, whereas he humiliated and apparently abandoned his kids. What I find ironic is this- go over to the focus on the family website and you'll find all sorts of actually quite good advice about pulling a family back togather after this sort of betrayal/crisis. The Clintons managed to actually do this. Shouldn't they actually be praised by the family values crowd?
March 8, 2007 1:18 PM | Reply | Permalink
Hyde was the House Judiciary Chair...no?
March 8, 2007 3:26 PM | Reply | Permalink
I believe that's correct. He labeled his affair while married with a married hairdresser in his 40s
as a "youthful indiscretion" when it came to light during the Clinton impeachment.
March 8, 2007 5:23 PM | Reply | Permalink
No. We are not going to get into that in a presidential election.
I have 3 siblings and a mother who has had dementia several years. None of them ever visit her. She wasn't a great soccer-Mom mother and she wasn't an evil horrible woman who beat us. How are my brothers and sister CAPABLE of being so cold? is what I wonder.
But thats how life is and its the most common thing in the world for people to hold grievances against their parents for whatever. Giuliani's kids have had lots of advantages because he's their father, too. I don't know that Chelsea Clinton is "wonderful." She hasn't gotten herself in terrible trouble -- is that "wonderful?" Most people don't get themselves in terrible trouble. Giuliani's son sounded like a nice young man, too.
March 9, 2007 1:10 PM | Reply | Permalink
Name some.
Giuliani, had no money while he was married and those kids recieved nothing when he divorced. So, please name some advantages Giuliani afforded his kids, please.
March 9, 2007 1:21 PM | Reply | Permalink
Yeah, and how about Chappaquiddick !
March 9, 2007 1:28 PM | Reply | Permalink
While I am sorry about your mother and family situation, I'm not really sure what the point of this post is. What, precisely, are we not going to get into during this Presidential election? People's private lives? That's clearly a pipedream- you can bet your last dollar that the Right is going to be rolling around in the Dems' personal lives like hogs in slop- regardless of whether the stories (i.e. Obama in a Madrass) are true or not. Do we sink to their level by making up s*it? No. Do we fight back? Yes. You HAVE to- witness, i.e., The American President.
Moving beyond this pure political characterization though, Giulani has chosen to put his personal indiscretions in the public eye at an unprecedented level. He moved his mistress into his house and made her his official hostess for crying out loud! And while, as I said before, you can and perhaps should overlook what goes on in the private lives of two consenting adults, you can tell a lot about a person by how they treat those weaker then they are- i.e., their children. In this case, none of it's good.
As for Chelsea- I don't know her or anything, but a brief run down of her biography indicates that yeah, she's done pretty well- National Merit, highest honors from Stanford, masters from Oxford, prestigous jobs. Certainly better then the Bush twins.
March 9, 2007 5:48 PM | Reply | Permalink
The point I wanted to make about my own family is we don't know what the heck goes on in peoples minds regarding their parents or step parents. We don't know if Giuliani's wife tried tried tried to have a nice relationship with her stepchildren. They don't like her; maybe theres nothing she could have done to get them to like her. I don't have an opinion about whether people should stay together for the sake of their children because I don't want to run their lives any more than I'd want to stop someone from having an abortion!
Jenna Bush has been doing good work in Latin America and is going to write a book on AIDS but her father is a monster even if she's a very nice young lady and thinks the world of him.
Anyway, this stuff would be a distraction the Republicans would welcome.
March 9, 2007 11:47 PM | Reply | Permalink
Not true. Their mother got about $7 million plus child support.
March 9, 2007 11:50 PM | Reply | Permalink
So when you say his children got advantages by being his spawn, you're talking about the money that their mother got, plus child support?
$7,000,000!
Then there wass the heartache of these teenagers as their family broke up, and the embarassment and pain of seeing their mother humiliated publicly by their father and his mistress.
Priceless!
Jan Knaus
March 10, 2007 12:58 PM | Reply | Permalink
You are really all over the map on this one:
"Staying together for the sake of the children" isn't what we're talking about here. The sake of the children wasn't considered. He moved his mistress into the governor's mansion when his wife still lived there with his children! That level of disrespect for their mother is more than most children could ever forgive. They have a reason to try to work it out with Rudy; he is their father and they have a history. The only history his current wife has with the children (rightly or wrongly) is that she is the woman who broke up their home.
Basing one's opinion on how a person treats his family and others is a reasonable test of his character. It is not the same as "running his life." We may all come to different conclusions about what matters, but a legitimate way to evaluate a person's ethics is through his past behavior.
What does THAT have to do with telling someone they should not have an abortion?
Jan Knaus
March 10, 2007 1:13 PM | Reply | Permalink
I believe that is the same label applied to Bush's DUI when he was in his 40's. Ahh, YOUTH! Well, you know what they say, 40's are the new 20's...or something like that!
Jan Knaus
March 10, 2007 1:18 PM | Reply | Permalink
"Giulani has chosen to put his personal indiscretions in the public eye at an unprecedented level"
O for sure! He announced the divorce at a PRESS conference for pete's sake. The conference was not called for that announcement but he turned it into these most unprecedented revealation EVER at a press conference.
March 10, 2007 1:59 PM | Reply | Permalink
Catch this:
No matter what else he has said and done, this will kill him with the base!
Jan Knaus
March 11, 2007 6:17 PM | Reply | Permalink
Maybe not, once he provides his rationale. Which is to reduce crime based on the poor and minorities having too many kids which generate the most offenders. In other words, it plays right into their bigotry.
March 11, 2007 9:59 PM | Reply | Permalink
Even bigotry will not get the base to go for publically funded abortion. Having babies is an apt punishment for those who don't plan ahead, and then make sure that they don't get any help with that same baby! They don't even want the morning after pill to be available; you have to be kidding, WRB! Publically funded abortion is NOT their idea of problem-solving (no punishment).
Jan Knaus
March 12, 2007 1:10 PM | Reply | Permalink